Marriage God's Way! Pt.4

Feb 8, 2026    Pastor Mel Svendsen

What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in self-help books or secular counseling, but in the timeless wisdom of Scripture? This message takes us deep into 1 Peter 3:1-7, unpacking what it truly means to communicate God's way in marriage. We're challenged to see that successful marriages aren't defined by worldly standards of wealth or status, but by our commitment to Christ and biblical principles. The core teaching revolves around Ephesians 4:15—speaking the truth in love—and the fruit of the Spirit as our communication compass. We learn that words have the power to build up or tear down, and we're called to eliminate all corrupting talk from our mouths. The message doesn't shy away from difficult topics: addressing the husband's role as servant leader, the wife's complementary role, and how both partners must cultivate patience, kindness, and self-control. What makes this particularly powerful is the emphasis on inviting God into our problems early, not as a last resort. We're reminded that 95% of marital conflicts could be resolved if couples simply went directly to each other with soft answers and humble hearts. The teaching on anger is especially convicting—we're called to put away all bitterness, wrath, and malice, recognizing that our anger doesn't produce God's righteousness. This isn't just about having a 'good' marriage; it's about creating a living testimony to Christ's transforming power in our most intimate relationship.